Lil' John's Blog

A necktie should ideally pull together the colors in your clothes and make a statement about you, whether you want to stand out from the crowd with bright hues or blend in with a more traditional look.

You probably need an extra long tie, either because you’re tall or because you’re big and want a tie long enough to cover your body. In any event, make sure it reaches the peak of your belt. Too short and you look like a nerd; too long and you look like you have something in your crotch.

And avoid a skinny tie, even if fashionistas like them; a skinny tie makes a big man look wider.

When selecting a tie, keep in mind your size and the width of your shoulders, which will frame the neckwear.

A silk tie is your best option. It will cost more but it is worth every penny. Get the best silk tie that fits your budget; a triple-ply silk tie – the best for quality – costs more than a double-ply or single-ply silk tie.

The advantages of silk: It is smooth, stays straight, flows with your body and generally lasts longer than a woven or synthetic tie. Woven ties tend to stretch, lack curvature and become wrinkle-prone.

Make sure the tie doesn’t clash with your outfit, either in color or design. For example, a tie with a vertical design will look bad if you’re wearing a shirt with a vertical design. If you have a favorite tie that stands out, a solid colored shirt often works best as a background.

(Tip: Brush your teeth before you put on a shirt and tie. If you brush your teeth afterwards, you’re liable to find little specks of errant toothpaste dotting your clothes.)

A necktie often serves as a signature of sorts, a slice of your personality, a sign of who you are. A bright tie sends one message, a conservative tie sends another, and all ties depend on the occasion – wedding, funeral, business meeting.

With ties, as with other clothes, wear what makes you feel confident and alive. Confidence will help you carry off your look, whatever you choose.